After watching the most recent MTV movie awards and seeing Sandra Bullock and Scarlett Johansson pull a repeat of Brittany Spears and Madonnas 2003 kiss, I started thinking about how within the last few decades certain things that used to be considered taboo is now becoming the norm. I remember when it was impossible for me to keep my eyes pasted on the television if two women were kissing. Now I just look and feel nothing. I think it's safe to say that America has been desensitized by books, music, television, the media, and etc to view sexual prowess as normal. Even Samantha from Sex & The City's sexual openness is envied by many and the fact is, America hasn't been this open about the subject since, well....EVER.
There are a variety of reasons why a woman's sex drive can go down the toilet. If you are one of these women, you're probably thinking something like, "Maybe I'm just not very sexual anymore," or "Maybe my age is catching up with me." Maybe, but probably not. Physical problems, hormone changes, psychological problems and relationship issues can all be a factors. Here are some natural treatments and changes worth trying.
As an experienced man in my late twenties I have learned a few tricks in my day. I may not be able to cook well, and I may be a little too arrogant at times, but I know how to please a woman. As a young man I didn't always know what exactly would 'do it' for each woman. I thought that I could do the same thing to each one and they would be equally pleased. I was wrong. Different women like different things, and it's our jobs to figure out what those things are. My first real girlfriend clued me in on this as I tried to make her 'finish' to no avail. That's when she broke it down to me, and after our break up I took her advice and learned that she was on to something. Here goes...
PROVERBIAL MIND CANDY
Proverbial-Widely referred to
Mind-A process that reasons
Candy-Something that is pleasing or pleasureable
"We are here to stimulate your mind with knowledge. If we do that, then we have done our job..."