Lottery Ticket

The upcoming movie "Lottery Ticket" featuring Bow Wow has been getting a lot of press.  This movie has many people asking themselves...What would I do if I hit the lotto and who could I trust? 

The Dream: Who The Eff is Nikki?

Unless you are living under a rock, you've heard about The Dreams current relationship troubles with Christina Millian.   

I'm Just Sayin: What's up with guys re-asking for the number?

All of us females get this.  You're at the grocery store or maybe the gas station and you run into a guy who you used to talk to a year or so ago.  You make small talk.  You go through the how have you beens and what's new drill. 

Women: How to Naturally Boost Your Sex Drive

There are a variety of reasons why a woman's sex drive can go down the toilet.  If you are one of these women, you're probably thinking something like, "Maybe I'm just not very sexual anymore," or "Maybe my age is catching up with me."  Maybe, but probably not.  Physical problems, hormone changes, psychological problems and relationship issues can all be a factors.  Here are some natural treatments and changes worth trying.

Too Sexy in the Workplace?

Last week, Debrahlee Lorenzana made headlines when her employer, a Citibank branch in New York fired her for allegedly being too good looking. Her bosses disagree, blaming her work performance on the split. Now I’ve seen my share of sexy guys at work, but I think termination is a pretty extreme punishment, especially for something that you have to half way blame (and thank) your parents for.

Some Friday Linkage: Jewelry

Today's links feature jewelry...who doesn't like jewelry?

The 6 Different Types of Guys

During my 27 years, I’ve ran into a lot of different types of guys. I know you’re probably thinking something like, well all guys are different. This is true, but if I had to characterize a large portion of them, I could pretty much throw them all into these 6 groups. He doesn’t have to only belong to one of these groups however, he can be a combo. You know what they say…variety is the spice of America.

Deal Breakers: Personal Hygiene

Shower: .30 worth of water

Soap: .99

Deodorant: $1.99

Realizing you lost your chance with your crush because you stink: PRICELESS.

How Old is Too Old?

In relationships and dating, traditionally women go for older men and men go for younger women.

In Honor Of: Sex and the City 2

Since today is the opening for the second SATC movie, we'd like to honor it with a couple of videos.  Enjoy!

6 Things That Make Attractive Women Less Attractive to Men

If a man is attracted to you, there is no reason why he wouldn't step up to you and ask for your number right?  Wrong!  It's true that men are visual creatures and they will overlook quite a lot for a hot face or bod, but there are exceptions.  I've thought about typical reasons why a man may pass on a physically attractive woman, and choose her not-as-attractive friend. 

Cultural Spotlight: Conversations of the Heart: Letters Between Young Black Men and Women

This is the first of many Cultural Spotlights we will feature.  We here at PMC believe that positive efforts such as expression through literature and art, specifically in the black community should be recognized.  Natelege Whaley, a 21-year-old native of Brooklyn, New York and senior at Howard University, is curating a book of poems, songs, letters, raps, artwork and photography from people of color, ages 18-25, showing the generation’s thoughts about the opposite sex in friendship, dating, relationships and more.

For more information or if interested in making a submission, read more.

In Case You Missed It: VH1s Undateable

In case you missed it, Vh1 devoted a special about things that men do that makes them "undateable."  It was actually pretty entertaining.  They were on point with a lot of it. 

SATC Files: Introduction

Since this blog is relatively new, you guys don’t know that both myself & TheOpinionated1 are huge Sex and the City fans. With that said, I thought it would only be right to devote a series of posts to it. For those of you who are not familiar with the HBO series, here’s the rundown. The show is centered around four single women living and dating in NYC.

The Friend Zone-How Did I Get Here?

We've all been there...

You're really really feeling this guy (or girl). You like the way he smiles, the way he dresses, the way he smells, you even like the way he talks. Maybe you see him all the time at your gym, or maybe at work. Eventually, fueled by the stares that you shoot his way when you think he's not looking, he asks for your number. You two talk on the phone for a week or so and he seems pretty cool. Now it's time for the first date. You're on for dinner, a movie, or that local poetry spot that's hot. The date is over and he drops you off at your house. Before leaving, he gives you a hug and tells you he will call you tomorrow. You guys go out a few more times. He's really feeling you, but somewhere in between dinner and the movies, he fell into the dreaded...FRIEND ZONE.

Deal Breakers: Hair

It started as a typical day. I woke up, watched videos on VH1, ate breakfast, showered, brushed my teeth and put on clothes. Soon after, I jumped into my car & headed to my 10 am hair appointment. As I opened the door to enter the Beauty Shop, I realized something. People STILL pay to get jheri curls.

Why YOU Shouldn’t Just Brush Off Men Of Other Races

Written by: Ms Candy

When it comes to interracial dating, lets be real. Black men are having their cake and eating it too. There’s nothing wrong with that, but the truth is that they are getting their swirl on while the sistas are staying loyal to the brothas. I’ll take a chance and say that men of color are probably the most open to dating outside of their race. Hey, who needs statistics?

Top 10 Places To Meet Mr. Right

Written by TheOpinionated1 & Ms Candy

1. WORK- Depending on the job, work can be a great place to find a potential mate. Jobs such as call centers, hospitals, or basically any place with a large quantity of people are ideal. Now, it’s up to you to choose wisely. For example if you work at a hospital we’re talking about the doctors not the patients or if you work at a prison let’s date the guards not the inmates. You don’t want to jeopardize your job over someone that’s off limits. But hey the great thing about dating in the workplace is that you know he does have a job. WARNING: Be careful though because if it goes sour your relationship may not be the only thing that suffers, your job/work reputation may be put on the line.

2. SCHOOL- Whether you’re in high school or college, school is swarming with men. Not only are these men most likely unmarried, but they are educated and on every campus corner. So next time you are contemplating skipping school you may want to remember that while you’re getting your education you could also be having a ‘special’ study session with that handsome David from biology 101.